Oh lord,
I had all three of my piercings done with a gun when I was 14. The cartilage "blew out" In the back and took YEARS to heal. The blow out is gone now, after 12 years.
I don't even know if stretching is a good idea now. But since it's been so long, maybe it can still be possible. I'll be sure to get some emu, vit E, and jojoba oil. I'm using Holey butt'r for the time being. Soothing stuff.
@ Porttikortti- Maybe you may have to let the lower piercing go a little slower then the other ear. I've seen people stretch each ear at different sizes. Either that or wait longer between sizes for both and oil massage in between.
I just realized this thread is old
Oh well :3