by corazon_de_oro » Fri Dec 24, 2010 5:37 am
Just to add something, pain is not the only issue when it comes to skipping sizes. Pain is only temporary, but the damage you could do to your lobes won't be. Just because the smaller sizes are, well, smaller, does not mean they're safer to skip! Think about it: small sizes set the foundation for all future stretches, and if you skip those you could build up scar tissue that makes it super hard to stretch in the future. Also, going from 20G (0.8mm) to 14G (1.6mm) is expanding the hole by twice its size! You wouldn't go from 8mm to 16mm, would you? So why go from 0.8 to 1.6?
Pain doesn't bother me much either when it comes to body modification. Piercings hurt, tattoos hurt, but it's worth it. The thing is, pain and stretching don't mix; safe stretching involves creating micro-tears that don't cause any open wounds, and in earlobes this should be virtually painless. There might be a small amount of tightness or pinching when you first stretch, but it should never burn or sting, especially for that long. Stretching isn't about tearing tissue, waiting for it to heal, and forcing it to stretch again. It's about letting your lobes loosen up and get comfortable at one size, and then slowly moving on to another.
Not trying to lecture anyone or say that anyone is wrong, just giving my two cents.
I'm Lindsay.
I have 1/2" lobes and 11 piercings: left helix x2, both conches, both nostrils, septum, navel, and VCH.
My lobes are small but I know a lot about stretching and how to do it safely, so message me if you have any questions!