hello, i'm brand new, although i've been lurking around this site for a few weeks. lobes were pierced when i was about 6 weeks old, however, i haven't worn any earrings in the lobes for about 8 years. holes are still open though - i checked this week.
thing is, i checked to make sure they were open with a regular earring - and after i took the earring out, my lobes felt stretched, and still kinda do a few two days later. i think i'm smaller than a 20g - perhaps 22g.
1. everywhere i look, i see 14g tapers, and i'm not even there, so how do i go about even starting?
2. also, i have extremely sensitive skin. even when i was young and wearing earrings, i had to wear surgical steel earrings. anything non-surgical would make my ear holes start to pus within the day. i wonder if i would only be able to wear surgical steel plugs, or if i could wear organics like wood. how does glass do in really sensitive skin? i may reconsider stretching if i won't be able to wear any organic or glass plugs. i don't like the metal look.
thanks for any help!