So my friend game me 8g tapers and he said I should be fine to stretch with that. I tried really hard to push it in (I know, bad) and it really hurt so I took it out. I bought 14g plugs and got them in. 2 days after, my cousin accidentally hits my left ear and it started bleeding so I took it out and I saw a little rim/lip around the hole, it also had a tiny bit of white-ish pus. It's been about 2 weeks now and it doesn't hurt, I've been doing SSS each day. Today, I took them out to see and it still had the tiny rim around the hole (just on my left ear). It also had more gunk than my right ear O.o
Is it a blowout? Do I have to downsize? I've heard that if you have a small blowout you can leave your current piercing in for longer than usual (2 months) and it should be fine. Also, if I leave it in, will it get bigger as I stretch my ear (I'm planning to only go to 4g)?
Thanks