by ast.riske » Fri Sep 09, 2011 7:04 pm
I agree with Joni, you need to wait before stretching again and putting double flares in so early was a bad idea.
More than that, the fact that your lobes loosened up like that isn't a good sign. It sounds like forcing double flare jewelry into your lobes did some significant damage. I would highly recommend you go naked for a while to let your lobes heal and tighten up. If you keep stretching like this, you will find yourself in A dangerous position where your lobes aren't getting enough circulation. This will lead to infections, necrosis and lobes tearing through. It sounds like you might already be getting there.
I'd be very careful about what you do from here on out. You could lose everything you've worked to get to. Give your lobes a chance and let them heal and thicken.
One last thing, are you wearing really heavy jewelry? You might want to find something lightweight when you start wearing jewelry again.
Battle not with monsters lest ye become a monster; and if you gaze into the abyss the abyss gazes into you.
-Fredrick Nietzsche
Pericings:
2g Lobes
6g Septum
Want:
Frenulum Linguae
Left inner conch
Right helix