OK so last night I decided to stretch my ear for the first time. I was at a 14G for about 3 years now and I just went ahead and stretched from a 14G to a 6G. It didn't even really hurt, my ear is not red and it does not bleed. Did I just get lucky or is that what is supposed to happen. Here is a picture.
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2yx3o83&s=7