I think it would make your lobes look good if you stretch them big. I also had a problem with my ears (not earlobes) as my ears were just damn big. The bigger stretchings i have, the smaller (or more normal) my ears look.
I'm at 42mm at the moment
I've bought the steel stretching kit and tunnels kit from bodyjewelrysourc.com and was pleased with the quality and the low price. i don't happen to live in the UK so i had to pay for shipping but it had some offer that inside UK you get free shipping if you order with some specified amount of money.
okay. thanks to you again. i had this same thread on the other section and i am sorry you had to say this twice but atleast i got a sure answer thank you veryvery much.
okay thank you guys and gals i'm just gonna keep on stretching and hoping it doesn't get too thin. and if it does i'm gonna do some tricks to make it thicker again : D
i measured it and it's a 2mm difference between them.
should i let it close and get it repierced or just continue stretching ? i don't like the idea of starting all over again :s
well. it doesn't look too funny now. it's just like a little difference. some ppl haven't even noticed it when i show them. well maybe i'm just too much of a perfectionist : D i was just thinking that maybe it looks stupid when im at higher gages as the jewellery should cover the whole ear lobe ...