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How long do you massage them for? It really is not so much the oil you use as much as the act of actually massaging your lobes. The oil is used to enrich your lobes, but just slapping it on there and rubbing your ears for two minutes isn't going to do anything. Masssage for 10-15 minutes and the ...

It all depends on how much you want to thicken up your lobes and how thin your lobes are now. So you said yours are not that thin then just go down one or two if you really want...and this will thicken up your lobes.
Also sleep with your plugs out to increase blood flow.
And massage them daily to ...

What kind of tape are you using?
You need to be using something with a non-stick (non-adhesive) tape.
Such as bondage tape or PFTE tape. If you are using anything else it is toxic and terrible for your ears and I would suggest downsizing immediatly if this is the case.
If not that keep it on hiatus ...