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It's not too difficult to do you just need to remember to be patient with it, and just like with lobes stretch up very slowly. The pain depends on how well you take pain, as with piercings you can't say whether its excruciatingly painful or not because everyone's pain thresh hold varies. Although ...

It looks like an infection, I'd keep Saline bathing it each day and hopefully it will clear up