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I am now at 6mm (2g) and have experienced the same thing each time i have stretched up a size. It usually 2 days after stretching that the pussy stuff appears.
I take out my plugs/tunnels and soak my ear in a salt/warm water solution for about 10 minutes twice a day. The tenderness and pussy stuff ...

I bought the "Stretch" oil from Onetribe. It's really cheap and a little goes a long way. It helps the tapers slide through your ears when stretching up a size and helps ears heal and thicken up after stretching.

I think it is trial and error. People need to listen to there ears and stretch when they are ready to be stretched again.
I'm stretching up a size when my ears feel ready. It can be anywhere from 3 - 7 weeks. If i slowly push the taper in and there is pain and resistance then i'll wait a week more ...