Earstretching.net

those are photos of pretty much what my ears look like but exaggerated. Whenever I put a plug in, one side of my ear sticks out like a cone wrapping around the plug and I don't know what to do to fix it.

I've never used tapers to stretch, never stretched too quickly and never skipped sizes, in fact i used teflon and bondage tape to get where I am now. I used sea salt soaks and now massage with jojoba oil daily.
However on my left lobe I have this lip forming, and i know it's not a blowout(maybe a ...