NEEDING ADVICE - improper placement with stretching

[carlyforget]

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This is my earlobe, it was once stretched to about 1g,happy and healthy.
Although i was a bit worried about the placement, i stretched my ears, using tapers and vitamin E oil massages. (it was pierced with a gun when i was younger, yes, i know now not a good decision.)
Several months ago, a friend of mine (who has been stretching her ears for a while) pointed out that my lobe hole was looking even higher up . (?)

So, my question is, if i was to stretch my lobe to a smaller gauge, slowly and safely, to about a 4 or 6g, would i be able to have a healthy earlobe, even with the placement?
and, would it look terribly obvious it is higher up?
Thank you so much , i've been seeking help for months <3

[bradykay90]

Its saying pics r unavialble. But my piercing was up hi. Havent poated pics yet but i will. Anyways what is ur goal size im at a 1g and so far they have came out fine

[carlyforget]

sorry , try now , just made the album public

[bradykay90]

Go ahead n stretch my piercing was on the same place and mine have came out good sofar. Ill post pics for u

[bradykay90]

Ur lobes can only stretch up so hi then it hits the cartlidge after that it will start pushing down on your lobes and strtch that way. Good luck