I've been using a regular water based personal lubricant called ID Glide that I have laying around. I've heard lots of talk here about oils for massages but my ears seem to be comfortable and happy without massaging and/or oil.
Does anyone here stretch without lubrication? I put in my plug the other day after letting my holes breathe and it shrunk a little but I was too lazy to go grab the lube and it actually was almost too tight

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