help! i this normal?

[corazon_de_oro]

^ I agree with you. While stretching doesn't have to make you go broke, it can get kind of expensive and if you can't afford to do it right you really shouldn't do it. Stretching needs to be done with patience and with the right materials.

[Nic]

Earlobes that resemble cow udders are not sexy. Anti-bacterial hand soap is cheaper than rubbing alcohol. Please be nice to your body.

Lol idk why but this part made me laugh my ass off xD

[Hardware]

That part was written to make you laugh

[micheleee.rawrr]

thanks people!
and its not hurting the back of my ear just looks red, ad i think it looks gross.
it doesn't hurt at all.
and i would buy some plug, but tapers are cheaper and easier to buy.

Okay, this is your body you are talking about.
If you needed surgery done, would you pay a professional in the next city over or the hack job down the street because he is cheaper and easier? I don't mean to be a jerk dude, but good things are not cheap and cheap things are not good. You really owe it to yourself, and your ears, to take your time and do it right the first time. Blowout is painful, and expensive to remove if you don't take the proper action. Earlobes that resemble cow udders are not sexy. Anti-bacterial hand soap is cheaper than rubbing alcohol. Please be nice to your body.

hahahhaha!!
thanks! your right!!