If they're "f***ed up" from a fresh stretch you should downsize. Let them heal, and when they stop being sore, start doing oil massages. The only way to get rid of catbutt is to do regular oil massages. I'd recommend vitamin E oil. And when you're ready to go to 0G again, try going to 1G first.
I'm Lindsay.
I have 1/2" lobes and 11 piercings: left helix x2, both conches, both nostrils, septum, navel, and VCH. My lobes are small but I know a lot about stretching and how to do it safely, so message me if you have any questions!
@ GreyEyedMonster and Corazon, agreed. That hole doesn't just look catbutty, it looks angry, especially at the bottom. My ear only looked like that when one of my horn plugs nicked it. Not a happy day.
Downsize. Massage. Patience.
Battle not with monsters lest ye become a monster; and if you gaze into the abyss the abyss gazes into you.
-Fredrick Nietzsche
Pericings:
2g Lobes
6g Septum
Want:
Frenulum Linguae
Left inner conch
Right helix