Back again with another question

History
Dead stretched up to a 2.5mm no problems at all
Used a Taper to stretch to a 3mm and did not like using them at all!!
I have been at my 3.2mm in both ears for just over 3months now. I massage everyday and there is still a bit of resistance with using my 4mm taper. I really do not want to use a taper again as I didn't like it the last time.
I looked into taping so got some ptfe tape and wrapped my single flare ONCE but when I put it in my lobe the bloody tape rode up the plug!!!! It felt totally fine no burn etc but no tape on all of the plug...uuuuhhhhh
Please tell me what I am doing wrong, or is 3.2mm to small to start taping? This was a far more comfy and gradual way so would like to carry on with it......
Thanks for the advice for a newbie


Jingle Bells.