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Ive been meaning to get some soap or anti bacterial so and so for my ears, any one recommend and certain type or place?

Are your ears healing or healed?
For sore/irritated lobes, you don't even need soap. Sea salt soaks are all the aftercare you need, and washing them with soap will probably just irritate them more.
For healed lobes, you can use anything you want. I clean my plugs and ears at the sink after I take a shower and I just use whatever soap is there. Scented, unscented, antibacterial or not, whatever. I just don't use a lot on the actual lobe because it can be kind of drying.

if your ears are not healed dont use antibacterial soap because the bacteria will evolve and you will have very strong bacteria that is hard to get rid of.