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so ive been stretching for about 6 months and i am currently at 4g. my question is based on this picture do you think i should downsize? to me the stretch doesn't look right and i really dont want to have ugly ear lobes. if i need to downsize what size should i go down to? just one size smaller? would going all the way back to 12g and going much slower be the best thing? although i really wouldn't want to do that, but would if i had to.
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Thats pretty much what my ears look like, thats not what cat butt is at all. Im alost positive that what your thinking is cat butt is the fact that when your ears relax they are not perfect circles. very few people have perfect lobes like that with jewelry out. Looks to me like you just have a few wrinkles and a little bit of a crecent shape left from the original piercing maybe.

You look fine no need to worry, if it really bugs you that much though, downsize I guess, but i see no need for major downsizing, just one size.