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I'm sitting comfortably at 11mm, after I tried going from 10 to 12 unsuccessfully in one ear. I have both ears at 11mm. I think I upsized to 11mm about two months ago. I want to stretch one ear up to 12 but having some trouble. My ear seems fine, my 11mm plugs fall out sometimes even, so I'm wondering why there's a problem going up. After I tried going from 10 to 12 there was some swelling and I think I tore my lobe a bit (It's healed completely) so when I try to put the 12 in I get paranoid, so I don't push as hard and freak out a bit when it burns and back out. Am I just being a wimp or is my ear not ready?

Hope that all made sense.

Ur ears arent ready. How far are the tapers going in

Almost all the way in but as soon as it starts burning I take it out.

Take a hot shower a try it.that way if u want to u can wait til next week and try it